iTunes Fun

Here are the rules:

1. Put your iTunes, Windows Media Player, etc. on shuffle.

2. For each question, press the next button to get your answer.

3. YOU MUST WRITE THAT SONG NAME DOWN NO MATTER HOW SILLY IT SOUNDS.

4. Tag 6 friends.

5. Everyone tagged has to do the same thing.

6. Have Fun!

Well, I borrowed this from Norbyguy...this should be interesting.

1. If someone asks "Are you okay?", you say?

Unwritten - Vitamin String Quartet (But, it's the Natasha Beddingfield song)

2. How would you describe yourself?

You've Got A Friend - James Taylor

3. What do you like in a guy/girl?

Till There Was You - Music Man

4. How do you feel today?

I Can't Sleep - Clay Walker

5. What is your life's purpose?

As Long As He Needs Me - Oliver!

6. What is your motto?

What Gets in the Way - Sharon Little

7. What do your friends think of you?

Over the Rainbow - Judy Garland

8. What do you think about very often?

I Guess You Had to Be There - Craig Morgan

9. What is 2+2?

Who Was She? - Nico Muhly (From The Reader sountrack)

10. What do you think of your best friend?

It Won't Be Long Now - from In The Heights

11. What is your life story?

Death Came and Got Me - Rosie Thomas

12. What do you want to be when you grow up?

Leap of Faith - Kenny Loggins

13. What do you think when you see the person you like?

Memory - Barry Manilow

14. What will you dance to at your wedding?

And So it Goes - Billy Joel

16. What is your hobby/interest?

Marriage Tango - from I Love You, You're Perfect, Now Change

17. Whats your biggest fear?

I Need You - Tim McGraw/Faith Hill

18. What do you want right now?

Daniel's Ninth Cipher - The DaVinci Code

19. What do you think of your (boy/girl)friend?

Open Arms - Journey

20. What is your favorite song??

Symphony No. 2, Op. 30 "Romantic" - Howard Hanson

I don't know what happened to poor #15

I'm not gonna tag anyone to do this, but...you should do it. It's fun :)

Cabinet - 1, Me - 0

So, this morning, my kitchen cabinet jumped out and attacked me. Now, my face HURTS... I mean, I know it hurts other people a lot, but not it's hurting me too. OMG.... I have to be the clumsiest person on the planet. My mom said, "I don't know about you." Well, duh, mom...you've never known what to do about me. Anyway...here's my consolation prize....

Now, for all of you who have known me forever...yes, I am very clumsy. Do we really have to still make jokes about this? I think not. Could you please refrain...like this isn't already embarrassing?? Please and thank you.

Footprints in the Sand

If you know me, you know that I love lyrics. Not long ago I was listening to my iTunes and discovered a new favorite song. Most of the time I'm very music moody. I listen to music all day, and sometimes it sounds...well, not so good. When I come home, I usually do very little listening and if I do listen, it's usually pop music. I have A LOT of music on my iTunes/iPod. A LOT of music. So much that I don't even know what's on there, but I had it on shuffle and this song came on.

I don't know about you, but I can hear a song I've heard 700 times before, and pending on what mood I'm in, what my frame of mind is, who I'm with, etc. a song can suddenly take on a new meaning. Anyway, this was one of those songs. Currently, it means a lot to me. It gives me hope.

Footprints in the Sand

Recorded by: Leona Lewis

Written by: Richard Page, David Kreuger, Per Magnusson, & Simon Cowell

You walked with me

Footprints in the sand

And helped me understand where I'm going

You walked with me

When I was all alone

With so much unknown along the way

Then I heard you say

I promise you

I'm always there

When you're heart is filled with sorrow and despair

I'll carry you

When you need a friend

You'll find my footprints in the sand

I see my life

Flash across the sky

So many times have I been so afraid

And just when I have thought I've lost my way

You gave me strength to carry on

That's when I heard you say

I promise you

I'm always there

When you're heart is filled with sorrow and despair

I'll carry you when you need a friend

You'll find my footprints in the sand

And when I'm weary

I know you'll be here

And I can feel you

When you say

I promise you

I'm always there

When you're heart is filled with sadness and despair

I'll carry you when you need a friend

You'll find my footprints in the sand

Things change...

It has been an insanely long time since I've updated, and many things have happened since May of 2009! The quick version is in June and July I taught a few camps with the George N. Parks Drum Major Academy, something I've been doing for almost 10 years. I moved out of my mom's house on August 1, and immediately after we started summer marching band rehearsals. Shortly after that, we started school. This summer I also went on a trip to Chicago to watch a Cubs game. One of the most amazing experiences of my life.

Since school has started, there has been a lot that has happened. I'm always amazed at how much things can change in such a short amount of time. Situations, friends...I guess that's all part of life, however, I'm really struggling with this one.

When I lived with my mom, I always thought that my friends never came over to the house to hang out because I lived with my mom. So, I always went to them. Then I moved. My friends still don't come over. You see, what I've realized is that, it was convenient when I lived with my mom because I always went to them. There was no responsibility to come to me. The funny thing is, I moved out. There are no rules as to when people can or can't come over...and still, no one is here. I don't remember the last time a friend came over to just spend time with me. I don't remember the last time a friend called me just to see what was going on, or if everything was okay. I don't remember the last time I got a text that wasn't from facebook, or work related.

I guess what I'm saying is all of my "friends" were on the committee for me to move out of my mom's house. Do I regret that I did? Well, the jury is still out on that, but had I known that I was going to feel so alone and abandoned I might not have done it. I felt so pressured to take that step and stupidly thought that my friends would continue to be there and would continue to support me. What I didn't realize was it was them saying, "Get your own place so you stop bugging the shit out of me." I wish I would've seen it then. I wish I would've seen that talking to me or spending time with me was a burden. I would've walked away sooner. I would've gotten out to save myself before all of this happened.

I am a burden to everyone I love. What is wrong with me? Why does this always happen? Is my lot in life to always be alone?

My consolation prize? I've finally realized I'll never be a part of the club. Always the odd one out, the last person anyone ever things of. Never good enough, but in seeking approval and acceptance will do anything for anyone. Stupid, I know. I'm soon to be 28 and still seeking acceptance. Acceptance I will never find anywhere. I have never felt so alone.

I don't know, maybe I should just pack it up and start over. Move to the mountains, or the beach. Somewhere I don't know anyone, then I would expect to feel this way. Maybe I'll just find my rock to crawl under and wake up in a new life. One where people love me for who I am and have and want to spend time with me. I want to find a place where I fit in, where people understand me, and if they don't, they love me anyway.

I don't know that I'll ever find any of that, but I do hope that sometime soon, I am able to accept all that has happened with people I would've done anything for. I hope I am able to understand how people can be so hurtful, even if they don't mean to be. I hope I am able to understand how someone who supposedly cares about you can see you hurting and just walk away. I hope I am able to press forward and leave this all behind me. I hope I am able to trust again, to open up to love and be loved.